Here is Why Cardi B & Megan's Song WAP Really Bothers You
Alright so it’s been a few weeks since Cardi B and Megan The Stallion dropped the infamous song WAP which if you have been left in the dark, stands for “Wet Ass P*ssy.”
It has caused quite some buzz on social media with people, especially a tons of men judging them and saying a bunch of nonsense of how they are horrible role models to young girls in our society and all that bs that shows off their B***h N***a energy.
I initially was going to stay quiet on the topic and mind my business, but after a dope ass conversation with one of my girlfriends, I figured why not add my little 2 cents or a dollar holla to these men and women who need a little bit of some of Blunt Britt’s word of mouth.
Just a heads up before diving into this post, I am not sure what perception you have of me ( nor do I personally don’t care what it is) but if you’re a little sensitive Sam/Sally, this post ain’t for you.
If you don’t know me on a personal level this is just me at the core of being my blunt and honest self, just know shit is about to get real and you’re about to see a side of me that you’ve never seen or heard before. For those who know me, you know I ain’t new to this, I’m true to this.
And if you have something negative to say something about my character or anything after reading this, just remember, Ya mom’s and ya granny is a hoe. 😘✌🏾
Here is Why the Song WAP bothers you:
You Lack Confidence in Your Own Sexuality
I am a pure 90’s kid raised around all 80’s baby, so when it comes to hearing women in Hip Hop express themselves and their sexuality it’s pretty normal to me.
I’m talking I grew up on Trina, Lil’ Kim, Foxy Brown, La Chat, Missy Elliott and much more. These women paved the way for all of today’s female rappers, so the fact that ya’ll are shook by Megan and Cardi just goes to show it’s not the artists, it’s you. Women in Hip Hop expressing themselves sexually in I guess what most would say is “vulgar” isn’t very new for me. Isn’t new for us millennials born before 1994 actually. I mean damn, y’all must have never listened to Trina’s Da Baddest B***h album?!
Two women expressing themselves sexually isn’t something new, it’s been very common. So really you are either just a hater of the two artists (which is most of societies issues and/or you’re a Nicki fan and a Cardi hater), and on top of that they expose the shit in the bedroom that you probably are just too afraid to do.
So instead of being like. ‘Aww shit I gotta try that”, you choose to hate on them and assassinate their character. If you aren’t comfortable with doing certain shit in the bedroom, that’s on you, but don’t hate on the women who are down with BIG MACK trucks parking in our little garages.
I get it, women who express sexual gestures of things that you don’t do in the bedroom can spark some triggers. It could be a reminder of what you as a woman don’t do, or as a man what you’re not getting. Either way, that’s no ones problem but your own.
Dragging women down who have confidence in their sex life and what they do to please a man (or woman) doesn’t do anything but expose your insecurities. So lighten up buttercup and take some notes. You could learn a little sum sum.
You Hyper-Sexualize Men
Now this is theeeee teaaaaa honeeyyyy. I feel like not only in America but all over the world we put men on a pedestal when it comes to sex, like they are the most nasty and freaky sexual beings. We hear it in music, the big shit they talk on the day to day basic on social media, and society has just created this narrative that they are the creators of sex to teach us women how it’s done.
Tuhh huhhh, the lies baby. Let me humble you n**gas real quick, never forget that God made Adam and realized he was lacking in many ways, took his rib and made Eve who came WHOLE. Whether you like it or not, it is what it is. A man alone here on this earth wasn’t enough and he needed A BETTER HALF (US WOMEN) to help guide and direct him in life, which is why we are the ones to give it. Don’t like it, take it up with God or whatever higher power you serve because that’s the facts from the Bible.
Now with that being said, we were created to help guide and direct you in many areas of life because it was clear that you couldn’t do this thing called life alone. That includes sex baby. So many men talk big shit when it comes to the bedroom, but be vanilla as as hell when it comes to putting that dick down in the bedroom. Hence why so many women leave y’all asses for another woman to actually bust a nut, but I digress.
It’s usually the women who are the nasty freaky ones who have to guide you men to actually locate where the clit is. Or to actually allow her to have an orgasm when you’re actually stroking her, because trust and believe we’ve faked it for a few men’s ego from time to time. I know far too many women who have had to teach their men how to please her because she was more of a sexual being than he was. More women than you know have to rely on toys for full pleasure and to get her needs met.
By all means, don’t get it twisted for the appreciation to the nasty brothers out there who aren’t vanilla and gives us all the flavors with sprinkles on top in the bedroom! We appreciate and love y’all nasty asses. This also doesn’t mean that all women aren’t super sexual beings as well because it’s some lazy or boring in the bed chicks out there with just pretty faces.
All in all, I’m just here to say that it’s usually the woman who is more sexual, not men.
You’re Used to Controlling Women
For me I feel as if this is the most common issue of it all. Men are used to controlling a woman’s actions and some women are just flat out used to being controlled by them. For centuries women have been told what is and isn’t acceptable, held to particular standards of whatever duties they feel a woman should do, and if she doesn’t do whatever those standards are to their liking, she is deemed to be a damn devil.
Case and point to today’s current events, if a woman speaks on her sexuality she’s viewed as a hoe, un-lady like, a bad role model and all. Yet men go to strip clubs, pay escorts, call girls and etc. to do these exact things to FROM WOMEN (and some men ☕️) to visually and physically please them and do all the nasty shit these two women say and do in this song.
It’s so backwards to me. We just can never make y’all happy and damned if we do and damned if we don’t. You just want to pick and choose who to get what from, and who you feel it’s acceptable to get ya freak nasty on with. It’s just controlling and we women are just no longer here for it. You and your controlling issues and views on what you feel a woman should be is no longer our issue. Take that up with God.
You’re a Super Saved Christian
I am a Christian woman who is a firm believer in the Word of God. Don’t let my potty mouth fool you, because at the core of who I am stands firm in God. However, we all know them super saved and judgement Christians who tells everyone that pretty much any and everything they do that they are going to hell.
How does this text relate to this topic at hand? The Christians are some of the people who are mostly bashing these women and judging them for the music they create. Talking about how they are horrible role models and poor figures as young women to look up to. Calling them all types harlets and what not. I’ve never understood that if you don’t like something why entertain it at all?? Especially if it’s not for you.
I was raised in the church and still stick to my core values taught to me, but I also was taught to be not so impressionable as a young kid as well. Yeah we listened to Hip Hip in my household, but if a song was too vulgar, we just weren’t allowed to listen to it. Or we were told that it was simply just music and you don’t always do what other people do. Why is it so hard to do the same and not rely on public figures to be role models for your children?
You can be as Holy as you want to and dislike people who are more public about their sexuality, but at the end of the day you still have to have sex…right? You still have husbands and wives that you have to sexually please, because I’m pretty sure all of your children aren’t being born with the two of you swapping Bible scriptures with one another and then BOOM the stork pops up at your door with a beloved baby. Nah, y’all be f**king too.
And if I might add, some of the church girls I know be some of the freaky and nastiest girls I know, but baby that’s a whole different topic. My point of it all is just because someone does something more openly than what you do behind closed doors doesn’t make you better than them because you put the title of a Christian in front of your name.
Yea there is a way people can go about certain things with more class and dignity, but once again everyone on this earth isn’t going to be just like you and do things the exact way your super saved self does them. Regardless of it all, we are supposed to show everyone, including God’s children His love,grace and mercy. Not judge them. Period.
Closing Point
If you don’t like the music these women create, simply don’t listen to it. If you don’t like seeing posts about the topic of them on social media or where ever and protect your eye gates, them simply remove or block the things and people sharing them. Sexuality is not a sin.
If I want my husband’s diddly to hit that dangly thang in the back of my throat, choke me, skeet on my chest and call me a nasty b***h, tell him to roll us up a blunt and get ready for round 2 and I am open about it, does that make me less of a lady?? Less of a Christian?? No it doesn’t. I said what I said and I mean that sh*t.
I am a woman with needs, sexual needs and desires just like him and all of his other male species out there who are just as open about it that you’re fine with hearing these things from anyway. Us women aren’t robots and can voice our needs just like you.
I enjoy this music, especially this song to shake my a** too for my own enjoyment and around him to keep things spicy in our relationship because this is WAP B***h Energy over here only.
I hope you enjoyed this post and it wasn’t too much for you, and if it was just don’t come back because there is more to come (literally and figuratively) here on my blog. What are your thoughts on this topic??
As always, stay blessed and stay beautiful.
XOXO,
Britt